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Comment on How I recovered from my stubborn addiction to gambling by Jason

Jason — Mon, 08 Jun 2026 06:38:45 +0000

The distinction between “it’s not my fault, but it is my responsibility” is incredibly powerful.

Comment on Why Do Women Dress to Expose Their Skin? A Psychotherapist Answers by DJ Webb Sr

DJ Webb Sr — Tue, 19 May 2026 15:38:03 +0000

This is a male perspective from me.
There is a psychology behind relationships between males and females of our species.
In the 1970s, bars often had females dancing in revealing outfits. What they did was they had a good training in something called vulnerability body language. They never normally took any more clothing off than they were wearing while on stage.
This often meant revealing of breasts partially covered. This was always only a glimpse. It was very effective in the reactions of the male population of the place where they worked.
The rule being to never show the nipples of the dancer. But with body language to show themselves vulnerable.
The push buttons of the male are often visual in nature. The push bottoms of the female are often audio. This is a generalization.
So a woman baring her belly, in a skimpy halter with a supporting bra underneath was effective.
Male dancers often stripped down much further. The rule being to entertain with vaudeville skits. Often they showed off their physical abilities. And took money tips from the audiences. Restricted to an all female audience.
A dance designer friend in those days told me his dancers rehearsed long hours of the day before performing.
Men often think with their hormones. Women often look at the practical. Meaning, they look at what is in a potential relationship for me?
This appears to be universal.
The insurance companies live by the statistical data determining what any age group of women and men are likely to do. From the ages of 16 all the way to 26, men are at the mercy of their hormones.
Women are far better at controlling those hormones that men ever have thought possible. They are as a group quite capable of control much earlier than most men.
Psychology based on behaviorism is very valuable subliminally in the making of decisions of humanity.
Advertising, the placing of products on a shelf, and even the unwritten rules of clothing vary world wide.
The ideal is in any relationship appears to be whether or not it is equally balanced between the male and female.
The people deciding decisions made by average people make a whole lot of money in this world.

Comment on Breaking My Smartphone Addiction Was the Best Decision Ever by Mostapha

Mostapha — Sun, 10 May 2026 23:02:01 +0000

Thank you Megan Zakrzewski for choosing this interesting topic

Comment on Have you met Dr Laughter? by Gian Chand Pinjani

Gian Chand Pinjani — Sun, 03 May 2026 04:59:21 +0000

Koti Koti Parnam to our beloved Rev. Dada J.P.Vaswani, who taught us to love every creation of God and keep on smiling all the time to live a Healthy Life.

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Comment on Draining Lymph Nodes: What It Means and How It Helps by Zanh Yort

Zanh Yort — Mon, 13 Apr 2026 09:51:24 +0000

I have a team of doctors that ignore my painful lymph nodes symptoms especially under my left arm pit. But are comfortable recommending chemo for lymphoma and absolutely nothing else but radiation. Anybody want to recommend a holistically acting doctor for humans remember those kind of doctors?

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Brian — Mon, 23 Mar 2026 16:33:15 +0000

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Comment on There’s something about Kalimpong by rjnivah

rjnivah — Fri, 27 Feb 2026 11:18:32 +0000

This was such a thoughtful and evocative read. You’ve captured Kalimpong’s quiet grace, layered history, and subtle tensions so beautifully — it feels less like a travel piece and more like a lived experience. The monastery morning and the walk through town especially stayed with me. Thank you for portraying Kalimpong with both honesty and affection.

Comment on A list of 101 excuses that you need to discard now by dhyan

dhyan — Thu, 19 Feb 2026 08:52:32 +0000

very inspiring

Comment on When Role Models Disappoint: How to Avoid the Pitfalls of Hero Worship by Meenakshi

Meenakshi — Fri, 13 Feb 2026 18:24:24 +0000

Thank you, Manoj for your balanced perspective. It strikes me that avoiding the trap of hero worship isn’t just about choosing better idols -it’s about the vulnerability required to remain a “work in progress.”

To maintain our own agency and competency, we have to stay experiential. We should test a role model’s values against our own rather than adopting them blindly. It takes immense authenticity and courage to do this without being rattled by how others judge our “unfinished” state.

I also see a modern parallel with AI. Over-dependence on technology or even an obsession with our own rigid thought processes leads to the same loss of control. Whether it’s a human hero or an algorithm, the moment we stop questioning, we are being controlled.

I’d love to hear your take: is our growing reliance on external “answers” (human or tech) making this internal grounding harder to achieve?