Then suffering loses its sting…

We can refuse to let circumstances affect our positive outlook towards life

On the hard road of life, there are some who are persecuted, some who are denied, some deprived, some cheated and so are unhappy. In the midst of so much suffering, can one still be happy?

A class of Jewish students, studying the Talmud [the collection of Rabbinic writings referred in Judaism], came across a passage, which they could not understand. The passage said that in the midst of suffering, we should rejoice. “We don’t understand these words!” the students exclaimed. “How can we rejoice in the midst of suffering?” they asked the Rabbi.

The Rabbi said, “I am not qualified to answer your question. But I know of a man living in our town. He has suffered much. There is not a calamity he has not faced. He was orphaned immediately after birth, he grew up in abject poverty; he suffered a broken leg; his married daughter was sent back home by her in-laws. Despite all her suffering, he always smiles and is happy. Go and ask him how is it that one can rejoice in the midst of suffering.”

A procession of students wended their way to his home. They explained to him the reason of their visit. The man expressed surprise and said, “I don’t think you have come to the right address. For, I have never experienced suffering in my life. How can I tell you the way to rejoice in the midst of suffering?”

Here was a man who had realised that suffering was a gift of the hands of God. Once we accept suffering as a gift, it loses its sting.

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J P Vaswani
J P Vaswani (2 August 1918 – 12 July 2018) ), affectionately called "Dada", was a spiritual leader with a difference. His message of love and forgiveness resonated deeply with millions of people around the world. He spearheaded Sadhu Vaswani Mission, which he took over after the passing away of his master T L Vaswani. The mission has centres around the world and continues to do humanitarian work. Dada has received the prestigious U-Thant Peace Award for his dedicated service to the world peace.


  1. One needs to experience both joy and sorrow as we live in a world of duality.For someone to deny that just one exists joy/sorrow is like saying there is always day/night.
    But living happily despite joy/sorrow is the key and one must learn to seek balance between them.


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