Comments on: Her Big O! Female orgasm is key to happy relationships

By: sundeep

sundeep — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

very helpful article indeed ..i am married ..what if breast feeding and other issues are tormenting her so much that she does not initiate the woman on top etc thing

By: Sumit

Sumit — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

many Indian women pass their entire married life without even once experiencing orgasm. It’s unfortunate. I will use & one will suffer. What step you have given solve this problem & awake people.

By: Gracious

Gracious — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

1. Indian women don’t involve in sex. They are grown with an idea that it is bad and that its basically a man’s thing to do. So, they simply lie there and take what they get. Of course, men want the orgasm, so they do what stimulates them, which is undress and do a naked plump woman.

2. Indian women don’t know the fact that a clitoris exists. They do get roused by a man’s touch, but don’t know what to do after that.

3. Basically Indian families have kids immediately. So, the question of exploring oneself becomes secondary to feeding the family and getting things ready for the man. So, they lose touch with what they like sexually.

By: joy

joy — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

good

By: Jayu

Jayu — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Really very nice info. I think all must know this to avoid further problems in their sexual life.
Yes many Indian women’s didn’t take initiative cause of non awareness of the sexual positions to have full orgasm. I wish they all read the complete info about the sex and surely they will achieve the desire happiness at all time.

By: Lalita

Lalita — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

I don’t know how there can be sexual fulfillment in the present system where your parents and family arrange your marriage. How can you know if you will even like your husband? With a man, as long as he can get sex, maybe he doesn’t have to really like a girl or woman. With a woman, if a man is unattractive to her and she doesn’t like him, no amount of positions will do any good. It is just disgusting to put people together in a bed who don’t even know each other! I think we have to throw these arranged marriages in the garbage! For one thing, no one needs to get married anymore. You can take care of yourself if you get an education. Handing a person a spouse on a platter is the stupidest thing I can think of! How can you honor and appreciate something that you don’t even have to do anything to get? How can you respect a person who is laid out before you like a meal? How can you make love and be happy with someone you don’t even know to begin with? Do you think love just grows out of nothing? And another thing, the world is overpopulated! Women in India need to get a life other than the stupid, medieval practice of just getting married and being used as a jelly donut! Then she gets to cook, clean, raise the kids!! Pooh!!! Men are spoiled in India, that is a problem too. They think they are gods, princes, etc. Women I know hate men. I don’t know any woman who is happy in her marriage, not one, no matter what her age. They stop giving their husbands nookie after the first two sons are born anyway. Sexual fulfillment is only an issue when women can get the freedom to live their lives as true people, not just wives and mothers and daughters. We have a right to be who we want to be and choose our lovers. Marriage is prison, for anyone who has any hopes for a better life. Men, if you want to please a woman, don’t get an arranged marriage. Find someone to date and fall in love with. Get to know her, whether you actually like her too! Then decide to get married because you know the lady likes you and will do anything you like because she does love you, not because she has to! A man is living a fantasy to believe any woman is going to love him when she is marrying him because that is just what we do. And ladies, you are fooling yourselves into thinking one day you will just become happy and love him. You won’t. You have to know the person and youself first. You need some kind of feeling of love first and then nurture that love feeling over time. You can’t have sex with strangers called husbands. It isn’t any different than rape, to be taken physically before you know the guy and are ready to share in that way. So as far as I can tell, the whole family is in on this rape, and its reprehensible! How can anyone even think about sexual satisfaction under such circumstances. Maybe in the year 1,000 marriages could work this way when people died at 30 and had to populate their region, but it isn’t like that anymore.